I confess…I strongly dislike articles that tell the reader what she has to do to catch a man’s attention. Weird, I know, especially since I write about relationships. The reason they annoy me is because they give women a formula on how to fake it till they make it. And then when they make it…BOOM…they’re all of a sudden a different person because they caught that man.
That being said, this small blog post is definitely advice on how to work on areas of your personality if needed, and if desired. And along the way, become more appealing to the opposite sex. So, ya, I guess I’m writing the type of article that annoys me. But give it a chance…read on.
A person who smiles, laughs, and is friendly will always have friends.
- I don’t think you always have to put on a ‘happy face’ with the goal of making others feel more comfortable around you.
- I don’t think you need to live life with constant thoughts swirling around in your head about what other people are thinking about you.
- I don’t think you need to plaster a smile on your face because that’s what girls are supposed to do.
I just think if you want to make friends and be more appealing to the opposite sex, you’re going to have to be more approachable. And part of that is learning to be friendly, and learning to smile and laugh a bit more.
These are basic areas of our personalities that can always be improved, and we have to intentionally work to improve them. If a happy demeanor isn’t natural for you, that’s OK. You don’t have to be the social butterfly, or the flirtatious girl who laughs at every stupid joke that every stupid guy tells (OK, that was rude), but you probably do need to change your attitude.
Just think about it. You feel at ease when you’re around nice people who appear to enjoy life. Signs of that enjoyment are seen when an individual is able to smile or laugh. A woman or man who have these traits are always going to be more approachable than someone who frowns, scowls, can’t converse, isn’t friendly, or is too shy to carry on a conversation. The friendly girl who laughs and smiles easily will have many friends and prospective male suitors.
Really, it’s that simple.
For the feminists out there, or those women who don’t like being told they should change an aspect about their personality to become more appealing to men, what’s WRONG with smiling, laughing, and being friendly? Honestly…nothing. Nothing is wrong with improving in this area.
So … try it.