CREATE THE LOVE YOU DESIRE 

A 6-month journey for women who are ready to break through the roadblocks keeping them from love, and finally experiene true & lasting success



















CREATE THE LOVE YOU DESIRE 

A 6-month journey for women who are ready to break through the roadblocks keeping them from love, and finally experience true & lasting success


Jesus-Loving Single Christian Woman...

Now Is Your Time

You deeply desire marriage, believe it’s God’s plan for your life, and trust that it will happen at the right time.

But you’re growing weary in waiting and have begun imagining life without a husband, yet you don’t want to give up that sliver of hope you still have for marriage.

Woman of God, now is your time. You are not victim to our culture. You can be empowered in your singleness and recognize that there are things you can do without stepping outside of God’s plans for you.

Maybe You're Starting To Accept The Possibility That You May Not Get Married, Or If You Do, It'll Be After Your Biological Clock Has Run Out

I get it. The online dating hook-up culture, “Christian” men who prefer to wear the label instead of walk the walk, and the baggage that comes with a lifetime-full of compromises is gut-wrenching, and you’re left wondering if it’s better for you to remain single.

It’s painfully discouraging when you feel like you’ve tried it all, but you still can’t find mutual connection. The guys you like never like you back, and the guys who like you, you aren’t interested in.

It’s like you’re in this vicious cycle of hope, discouragement, doubt, then something good happens again, and you start the cycle all over.

Not to mention, you feel like finding the “right person” is completely out of your control.

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"If It Feels Like I'm Reading Your Mind, It's Because I've Helped Many Women Just Like You"

My Clients Have Experienced It All: 

  • Heartbreak over being ghosted, stood up, led on, scammed, and of course, dumped.
  • Dating a narcissist who demeans, an emotionally unavailable man who can't love, a godly man who is desperate to make anything work with anyone, and the perfect man, only to find out she was never good enough.
  • Never getting asked out due to their unfriendliness, insecurity, or general aloofness, then struggling to rebuild their self-esteem.

And that is only scratching the surface!

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I found Starr’s podcast by ‘accident’. I was frustrated & dismayed at the lack of guidance & support for single Christian women, but Starr immediately gave me hope. Her love, wisdom & consistent support helped me to recover from old relational wounds & find a clear path forward. She is a voice of compassion & reason & I would recommend her to any Christian woman who desires to be in a loving marriage. I am grateful that God did bring a man into my life during my time with Starr & she helped me to navigate the early stages of my relationship. Carlos & I are married now & we are incredibly thankful to God & to all those around us who have offered their support. Miracles do happen.


Rebecca, London UK

When You're Constantly Feeling Stuck, And You Know It's Not All Your Fault, It's Hard NOT To Give Up And Stop Trying

It's Even Harder If You Aren't Surrounded By Support And Encouragement

But accepting your single status when you truly, deeply want to get married, is simply the gateway drug to unbelief.

It’s one thing to come to terms with being single at your age, it’s another thing to allow that acceptance to catapult you into apathy, aloofness, and inaction.

Eventually, unbelief sets in, which becomes the perfect reason not to prioritize finding someone, to get distracted with more important dreams and ambitions, and to never really try.

After a few bumps and set-backs, your love life is pushed to the back burner.

Again.

So I Ask You ...
How Long Are You Willing To Let This Continue?

If You Are In The Exact Same Spot 6 Months From Now, Will You Be OK With That?

What logical reasoning do you use that keeps you stuck? That keeps you making the same excuses? That keeps you from changing?

Is it — There’s nothing I can change, or need to change? No time? No finances to invest in this area of my life? Think it wouldn’t work?

Look, finding success in this area of your life IS possible. Meeting the right person SOONER can happen for you!

But it does take a willingness to look inward. It takes intentionality, investment, and focused time. You aren’t broken or beyond repair. At first glance, your situation may appear impossible, or highly challenging, but that doesn’t mean it can’t happen for you. So if it’s not about the time or money when it comes to improving your love life, then what’s the real resistance?

I am a single woman in her late 30s who was deeply content and confident in my singleness. The deeper issue, however, is that I had become complacent and had developed some negative views of marriage - particularly that it was going to remove value from my life, rather than add value.

My motivation to reach out to Starr really had to do with a deep desire to get unstuck and move forward with a Godly pursuit of marriage. Together, we analyzed my relationship history, discussed my impressions and desires, developed practical strategies to move forward, and most importantly were united in prayer. 

My story is filled with miracles and I'm so glad I took the step of faith to work with Starr. I married my husband at the end of 2019 and marriage has been a delightful surprise!

Arlyn - MA

 

 

It's Possible To Create The Love You Desire!

You could continue to focus your time and attention on other areas of your life. You could continue to excuse away your singleness by saying it’s not God’s time or you haven’t me the right person yet. Or you could embrace a community of girlfriends who will support you, encourage you, and challenge you. Create the Love You Desire is a group coaching program with a 1×1 coaching element designed to help you break through your love blockages and see success in your love life sooner. By the end, you’ll know how to talk to men you’re attracted to, how to stay out of the friend zone, and exactly what to change so you can see massive forward momentum in your love life.

In The Create The Love You Desire Group Program, We'll Cover Topics Such As:

  • How to get a guy to pursue you
  • What standards to create, keep, or disregard
  • How to attract, and be attracted to, the RIGHT types of men for you
  • How to identify, overcome, and have victory over the lies you've believed for decades
  • Grow spiritually and gain understanding of God's character and how He guides you through the wilderness and into the Promised Land
  • Dropping the image you have in your heard of what your future man is supposed to be like and how he's supposed to come into your life
  • Identify the REAL reasons you haven't found Mr. Right
  • How to discern well, and knowing when to initiate and when to back off
  • Getting clear on what you really want ... even if you're convinced you already know what you want
  • Healing childhood wounds that have you attracting, and dating, the wrong men
  • Strategies on how to love yourself more, along with adequately handling rejection
  • Managing online dating so you don't get burned out and give up too soon

 

 

By the end of Create The Love You Desire, you will know exactly what is holding you back in love and HOW to overcome it...

Imagine 6 months of personal coaching, new friends cheering you on and encouraging you, laser-focused guidance and support, and clarity surrounding HOW TO FIX the problems you’re running into.

What would that be like for you?

You won’t be alone anymore. You won’t be left wondering what’s wrong with you. You won’t be confused. You won’t be left to silently suffer, doubting that your dream of marriage will ever come true.

You’ll be working closely with me (Starr) and have the support of a small group of incredible women who are going through the same process with you.

My approach is analytical and straightforward. I believe in you, probably more than you do, and I believe God has the RIGHT man for you. I’m filled with faith for you and it’s contagious!

 

 








 

By the end of Create The Love You Desire, you will know exactly what is holding you back in love and HOW to overcome it...

Imagine 6 months of personal coaching, new friends cheering you on and encouraging you, laser-focused guidance and support, and clarity surrounding HOW TO FIX the problems you’re running into.

What would that be like for you?

You won’t be alone anymore. You won’t be left wondering what’s wrong with you. You won’t be confused. You won’t be left to silently suffer, doubting that your dream of marriage will ever come true.

You’ll be working closely with me (Starr) and have the support of a small group of incredible women who are going through the same process with you.

My approach is analytical and straightforward. I believe in you, probably more than you do, and I believe God has the RIGHT man for you. I’m filled with faith for you and it’s contagious!

 


Create The Love You Desire Is A 6-Month Group Coaching Program With A 1x1 Element

Here's How It's Delivered:

6 60-minute 1x1 coaching calls with Starr


12 group coaching sessions


Private online community


Online training videos + assignments


Accountability Partners (if desired)

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Through both Starr’s podcast and working with her directly, she helped me identify the factors holding me back in my dating life and helped me overcome them.  Through her advice and coaching, I was able to identify the right man when he came along and confidently walk into a relationship with him that ultimately led to marriage!  She tailored her advice to my specific questions and situation, rather than using a one-size-fits-all approach, which I found to be encouraging and exactly what I needed while dating.  

I’m now happily married to the love of my life and am so grateful to God for bringing both him and Starr across my path at just the right moments!

Melanie, NY, 37

 

 

I still believe if I had walked away from my boyfriend (now husband) due to my fears, he would have found someone else and I would still be searching.!

As a young girl, I was very clingy to my mom and would never leave her side. I think I was reserved and  fearful of all other humans. When a dog bit me, I would never go near another dog again. When my sister was curling my hair and burned me, I never let her curl my hair again.

When I saw marriages collapse, I was fearful of every possible thing that could go wrong and became terrified of marriage.

Just because my fears were justified didn’t mean I should carry them with me throughout life. In time those childhood fears left me, but my adult fears of marriage stayed with me until they were forced out of me like a volcanic eruption. I had to walk through them in order to overcome them.

I want to help you address your internal blockages that you might be slightly aware of, but not fully sure how to solve. I want you to overcome those hurdles keeping you stuck in a rut, feeling like a victim, and completely powerless.

I want your faith for marriage to explode and I want to walk you through your challenges into victory.

 

 

When you join Create The Love You Desire you'll...

Know how to talk to men you're attracted to, and begin easily attracting the right types of men.

Experience a massive increase in faith for marriage, and grow in your self-love and confidence.

Know exactly how to deal with rejection so you can adequately handle it instead of fearing it.

Manage Online Dating like a boss and learn how to communicate like a Queen.

Create connection with other like-minded, faith-based women who will encourage and support you, while holding you accountable.

Radically heal inner wounds keeping you stuck, confused, and discouraged.

What's The Secret To Coaching With Starr?

  • Starr Burroughs

    “Like a lot of women, I was having a hard time meeting guys who shared my religious values AND had common interests.  After stumbling across Starr’s podcast and reading her book, I decided I liked her approach well enough to invest in the 6-month coaching program.  I knew that I desperately needed the individual attention and honest answers if I was going to fulfill my dream of getting married.

    I realized that the whole point of having a dating coach was to get me to do stuff outside my comfort zone. Doing things my way hadn’t worked; this push was exactly what I signed up for.  So I begrudgingly signed up for my preferred dating site. Starr helped edit and polish my profile, and even sent out the first message to a match.

    5 months in, I connected with a sweet and hilarious guy in Colorado.  And 5 months after that, he happily flew to Alaska so we could meet in person. I wasn’t a fan of long-distance, and I still don’t like it. That’s why, after nearly a year of dating long-distance, I’m moving to Colorado with the help of my loving boyfriend — who has already admitted that he’s planning to become my loving fiancé.”

    AK

  • Starr Burroughs

    “My mom was surprised I'd chosen someone - 'Who are you and what have you done with my daughter?' she said. I shared that if I hadn't connected with Starr, I would have missed the jewel right in front of my eyes who was made perfectly for me.

    We're on track to make the rounds to meeting each other's families early next year. We'll spend next year preparing for marriage, and our destination wedding. I'm so excited at the future we now plan to have together!

    Starr's brand of coaching is like a good friend who can identify with what you're going through, then like one who cares about your future and your desires, she gently challenges you to consider certain areas further, so that you can get closer to your real desires. She's a partner in the search for what God has truly placed in your heart.”

    Amsterdam, Netherlands, 43

  • Starr Burroughs

    “After many failures in relationships, I knew I needed to do something different. But you don’t know what you don’t know. And even though I through my priorities in a man were all the right ones, coaching with Starr helped me to reprioritize, not what I thought I wanted, but what God wanted for me. Eventually, I came to realize that God knew best.

    I stopped trying to impress my peers and what society sees as a great man, and started seeking God. By the end of my time working with Starr, I met a wonderful Christian man who has a heart for God. I fell in love with his heart and our spiritual connection first, and all of the other things just fell into place!”

    FL, 62

You won't be alone anymore...

Link Arms With Your Sisters
On Your Journey To
Marriage

The women in this group will understand you because they’re struggling with something similar to you. You’ll be able to relate with them in the challenges, frustrations, and discouragement that comes from “a hope deferred.”

You won’t bond over man-bashing and complaining, rather you’ll bond over watching each other take massive strides forward in their love lives, and witnessing each other’s growth.

I’ll be with you personally in every step of the journey. Guiding you, problem solving with you, listening to you, and strategizing with you. My job is to identify the roadblocks with you and lead you to breakthrough.

 

So Is Create The Love You Desire Right For You?

  • You're looking for strategy to help you find your man sooner, not just inspiration...
  • You recognize your need for accountability and understand the importance of working in a group environment...
  • You're committed to making changes and willing to do the inner work required to shift your mindsets around dating, men, and marriage...
  • You're interested in understanding the problems AND in putting in the work to solve them...
  • You're willing and able to find the time, money, and resources to make it happen...

If You Feel Called To Join Create The Love You Desire, Here's What To Do Next:

Fill out the interest form below for your Create The Love You Desire Exploratory call. I will reach out to you within 1-2 days to schedule a time on the calendar to chat. 

Both you and I will determine if this is the best fit for you and your needs. If we decide it is, you’ll submit payment, have access to the membership site with your online trainings and assignments, join our private Facebook group, and start diving in.

PLEASE NOTE: Create The Love You Desire is limited to only 10 women so I can offer my full focus and attention to each woman in the group


Enrollment Closed!


When you enroll early you will get $400 off when you pay in full!

You’ll also get a special bonus training on Attachment Theory by Marriage and Family Therapist , Dona Moriarty.

AND Lifetime access to The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy – 6 weeks of laser focused training to help you MASTER online dating!

There are only 15 spots available, and I do expect them to fill quickly. Please do not delay in submitting your interest form even if you aren’t 100% sure about joining. 

I look forward to working with you!

Starr Burroughs

Schedule Your Create The Love You Desire Exploratory Call Here

APPLY HERE

IMPORTANT NOTE ON GROUP COACHING TIMES: We will find a time that works for everyone. Please don’t worry about the time not working for you. 

Applications close when all 15 spots are filled.

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