The Confident Single Woman Podcast

If you're a single woman who loves her single life, yet desperately wants to get married, then tune in!




The Confident Single Woman Podcast

If you're a single woman who loves her single life, yet desperately wants to get married, then tune in!

 


Join Starr Burroughs, author of "The Ineligible Bachelorette” and Dating and Love Coach to single women, as she uncovers the truth behind why so many women are single AND what they can do about it. Married now for 10 years, she brings insight into our current dating culture (especially Christian culture) and empowers the single woman to live life confidently and boldly.

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Check out the lastest episodes below!

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BONUS Episode with Kait Warman of The Heart of Dating Podcast | Types and Attractions with Kait and JJ

Today, I have a fun, EXTRA episode for you!

I’m sharing one of Kait Warman’s episodes, “Types and Attractions with Kait and JJ,” from The Heart of Dating podcast!

They share their story about how JJ wasn’t Kait’s “type” at first, even though she thought he was good looking.

They also answer the questions: “How should we treat having a “type?” and “How important is attraction?” Kait and JJ will cover the 5 types of attraction as well!

You’ll definitely want to tune in!

Please grab Kait’s F…

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Episode 190: The Top 4 Reasons Why Some Women Will Always Remain Single

In my years of listening to and coaching single Christian women, I’ve learned there are 4 prominent areas that some women fall into that make it very difficult, if not impossible, to get married.

These 4 areas are extremely challenging to overcome. It takes deep self-awareness and a gritty determination to break through these roadblocks to love; each area can carry many layers of pain.

The top 4 reasons that some women will always remain single are:

1. Severe introvertedness and/or social a…

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Episode 189: To The Christian Girl Who Is Never Attracted To The Christian Guy

“I’m just not attracted to Christian men!”

Ouch.

I’ve heard this from many Christian women who want to get married to a CHRISTIAN MAN!

This is a dangerous place to live because it’s massive self-sabotage. In today’s episode I cover quite a few thoughts about why you may fee this way. I also ask many questions for you to ask yourself so that you can find out exactly what it is that you’re not attracted to.

If you want to get married and you’re struggling with being attracted to the right ty…

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Episode 188: How Doubt, Unbelief, and Reasoning Hinder the Power of God In Your Life

Have you ever told yourself, “Well, not everyone gets married!”?

People will say that to remind themselves that they aren’t alone in their singleness. They say it to make themselves feel better and to remain logical, rather than emotional in their desire for marriage. I’m sure there’s many other reasons, but these are the top ones that come to mind.

However, when people say this is triggers an unbelief and doubt that rears it’s ugly head. It would be considered human reasoning. Unbelief, dou…

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Episode 187: The Truth About Marriage … and 6 Myths About Marriage You’re Probably Believing

The Truth About Marriage … and 6 Myths About Marriage You’re Probably Believing

Today I’m talking all about the realities of marriage. I want to break down 6 different myths that you may be believing about marriage and share the truths.

Myth #1: We do everything together

Myth #2: He Will Never Change

Myth #3: Marriage will Fix you, Heal you, be Magical, keep you from being lonely

Myth #4: Marriage will meet all your expectations

Myth #5: Strong, Healthy Marriages should come naturally

M…

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Episode 186: The Pit of Perfectionism and How It Affects Your Pursuit of Marriage (Part 2)

The journey of the Perfectionist to the altar can be a long one.

Today, I’m talking about the standards a perfectionist has for how she should be treated.

There are a few mindsets that are hindering women when they date, meet men, and even after they’re already in a relationship. These mindsets start out as innocent, but if we aren’t careful they become very self-centered.

If you’re a perfectionist and are wondering if some of your thought patterns or beliefs are actually hindering you, ple…

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Episode 185: The Pit of Perfectionism and How It Affects Your Pursuit of Marriage (Part 1)

The journey of the Perfectionist to the altar can be a long one.

Today, I’m talking about the standards a perfectionist has for a man and how it can slow down her progress toward marriage. I truly believe perfectionism is a blind spot many Christians have.

Single Christians always want to pursue godly qualities in their search for an amazing Christian man, but what if you’re actually being a perfectionist with perfectionistic expectations in your search for the “perfect” husband?

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Episode 184: I'm Attracting Guys Who Only Want Sex or Who Don't Have Goals

Have you ever run into the same type of guy over and over?

And then over and over again?

And again?

When this happens, you begin to believe that “all men” are ________ (fill in the blank). But that’s simply not true because you haven’t met “all men,” have you? ;-)

As this pattern continues, even Christian women begin thinking … “All guys want is sex!” “How do I stop attracting the wrong men?” “What am I doing wrong?”

If you’re a successful woman, you may find it difficult to find someone …

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Episode 183: How To Know If It's You or Not You

Are you the one hindering your progress toward marriage or is it other factors that are slowing you down?

Do you find yourself wondering, “Is it my fault I’m single?” or “Why am I not married yet?”

As women, we tend to blame ourselves and constantly think about what to fix. However, it’s important to accurately diagnose what’s hindering your progress toward marriage.

Sometimes it is you. Sometimes it’s not.

But how do you know if it is or isn’t?

Today, I’m asking questions to help you fig…

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Episode 182: Don't Stay Where No One Sees Your Value

We all understand how important timing is, but do we understand how important being in the right place is?

What I’ve learned to do as a love coach to single christians is to learn more about their surroundings.

Is their church a dry and dead atmosphere for potential christ-centered, romantic relationships?

Is it never going to happen in their workplace regarding love and marriage?

Do they have anyone setting them up or believing for marriage for them?

Do they fit into their surroundings?

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Episode 181: What I Want Single Women To Know

The 4 things I want single Christian women to know:

1) Sometimes it’s you, sometimes it’s not. Know which side of the track you’re on.

2) How to culture of dissatisfaction is affecting singles!

3)Discover if you’re in the right place.

4) Stop blaming God for your singleness.

If you’ve ever asked, “Why am I still single?” or “What am I doing wrong?” then you’ll want to tune in! Sometimes there are things we can change, sometimes there are not.

This episode digs deeper into the complexitie…

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Episode 180: How To Identify and Avoid Emotionally Unavailable Men

Let’s talk about emotionally unavailable men … What does that mean?

How can you tell if a man is emotionally unavailable?

What should you do if you realize the guy you’re talking to is emotionally unavailable? In this episode, I answer all these questions!

You’ll find out that you’ve been on dates with, or dated, emotionally unavailable men. It’s not as hard as you think to detect them, it’s more difficult to cut them off and move on. If you’re a woman who is ready for marriage and looki…

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